So on the way to work this morning (as I still try to manage through my Steve Harvey withdrawals), I'm listening to Tom Joyner and I hear "29yr old man with 21 children"! I literally screamed what the f*ck!!! Of course right away I knew that it had to be a story about "us"...*smh*. Then the next thing I thought about what who in the hell is stupid enough to sleep with a dude that has all these children with all these different women! Are they small-time retarded or what!?!? First of all, this whole situation screams IRRESPONSIBLE!! This dude was just going on raw-dog with any/every chick he could. I don't know about you, but d*mn if I want a dude like that in my life. I can handle being with a man with children from a previous relationship, but you have to draw the line somewhere.
The really sad part is that this sort of thing happens every single day in our culture. And it's really pathetic. Not only is it dangerous, but it shows a lack of respect for not only yourself and the women you choose to sleep with, but for the children that are being born into this mess. From the day of conception, they are doomed. God only knows if the mother has enough sense to see pre-natal care, let alone have a "plan" for this child's future.
How do you stop this type of behavior? If you can't stop it...well, I know I can't stop it, but what in the world is it going to take for fools like this to wake up and realize that this sh*t is ridiculous! It's 2009 and this is truly unacceptable.
